Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/5/84; site osu-eddie.UUCP Path: utzoo!decvax!bellcore!ulysses!burl!clyde!cbosgd!osu-eddie!zwicky From: zwicky@osu-eddie.UUCP (Elizabeth D. Zwicky) Newsgroups: net.women Subject: Re: Career vs. Relationship? Message-ID: <1160@osu-eddie.UUCP> Date: Tue, 21-Jan-86 14:54:21 EST Article-I.D.: osu-eddi.1160 Posted: Tue Jan 21 14:54:21 1986 Date-Received: Thu, 23-Jan-86 03:11:02 EST References: <481@ssc-vax.UUCP> <2340@reed.UUCP> <2341@reed.UUCP> Reply-To: zwicky@osu-eddie.UUCP (Elizabeth D. Zwicky) Distribution: na Organization: Ohio State Univ., CIS Dept., Cols, Oh. Lines: 12 OK, hows this for success: I am about to graduate from OSU, with honors. A month later I am getting married to the man I have been engaged to for 3 years and living with for 2; we did not get married earlier because I would have lost the financial aid that made me able to pay for school. 2 months after that, I will leave for my first academic job. In China. For 11 months. He will be finishing his degree at OSU meanwhile. Not that we came to this decision without some trouble, but you don't get many chances to spend a year in China. This is a big chance for me, and not likely to come again, but he can't go now. So I'm enduring the raised eyebrows, and doing it. marr