Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/5/84; site randvax.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!bellcore!decvax!ittatc!dcdwest!sdcsvax!sdcrdcf!randvax!jeanette From: jeanette@randvax.UUCP (Jeanette Haritan) Newsgroups: net.kids Subject: Re: How do I get my kid off the bottle?! Message-ID: <9@randvax.UUCP> Date: Fri, 7-Feb-86 09:32:56 EST Article-I.D.: randvax.9 Posted: Fri Feb 7 09:32:56 1986 Date-Received: Tue, 11-Feb-86 06:26:21 EST References: <845@hou2d.UUCP> <32700038@hpfcla.UUCP> Reply-To: jeanette@rand-unix.UUCP (Jeanette Haritan) Organization: Rand Corp., Santa Monica Lines: 18 In article <32700038@hpfcla.UUCP> ajs@hpfcla.UUCP writes: >> "Say, I just turned three, perhaps I should give the bottle the ol'heave >> ho!" This is similar to potty training. A child does not wake up one >> morning and say "Perhaps I shall try the toilet for a change". He has >> to be trained. > >While I agree in general, I must take exception to your example. Our >daughter, now 2 years, 9 months old, is toilet training herself nicely >with very little effort. She DID, one day, just sort of say "perhaps >I'll start to use it most of the time". > You're so lucky. My son is will soon be your daughter's age, and I hope it will go as nicely. In my first comment, I used what I consider a reliable source (my pediatrician), however, kids are different! I do think you are going about it the right way. From what I understand, FORCING a child will most likely turn him/her off. When I say a child has to be TRAINED, I try to put all FORCE aside. Perhaps I should say "strongly encourage".