Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.3 4.3bsd-beta 6/6/85; site ptsfb.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!bellcore!decvax!decwrl!pyramid!hplabs!qantel!ptsfa!ptsfb!rob From: rob@ptsfb.UUCP (Rob Bernardo) Newsgroups: net.motss Subject: Re: No Wonder We Look Bad Message-ID: <313@ptsfb.UUCP> Date: Sat, 8-Feb-86 12:54:13 EST Article-I.D.: ptsfb.313 Posted: Sat Feb 8 12:54:13 1986 Date-Received: Tue, 11-Feb-86 06:29:46 EST References: <500@drutx.UUCP> Reply-To: rob@ptsfb.UUCP (Rob Bernardo) Organization: Pacific Bell, San Francisco Lines: 51 In article <500@drutx.UUCP> bal@drutx.UUCP (LesebergB) writes: > > I was looking at this week's issue of OUTFRONT, >Colorado's #1 gay publication, and it occured to me how such >things are giving gays a bad reputation. There are many ads for >X-rated theatres and bookstores, a leather bar ad, and the >PERSONNAL ADS. These personnal ads are very specific in what >these guys are looking for. I'm not saying that these ads should >be taken out or anything, but can't there be any positive gay >publications to show society we are not sex crazy 24 hours a day >(though some of us might be). This is "Colorado's #1" >publication. I see copies of it littered in the street. My >straight friends see it and they say, "How can this filth be #1 >?!?!?" "Your friends aren't like this." 1. What about Christopher Street? 2. The National Enquirer is probably number 1 somewhere, too, I suspect. 3. To a large extent, mainstream publications satisfy gay people's nonsexual and nonsocial needs. Separate gay publications exist only to fill the void left by mainstream publications. The void includes a. news of specific interest to gay people, which often the mainstream publications won't/don't print. b. reviews of movies, books, etc. that have a "gay theme". c. personal ads or anything else that has to do with homosexual social/sexual relations. 4. Publications solely dedicated to sleazy heterosexual personal ads exist. But then why are sleazy homosexual personal ads incorporated in otherwise non-sleazy publications? Probably because those publishers and editors who are upfront enough to put out a gay publication are not embarrassed by the range of human sexuality. 5. Many people feel so oppressed/afraid with regards to their homosexuality that they will only venture out into gay institutions (e.g. bars) and gay publications to satisfy their basic needs, i.e. sex. Which is to say, there probably is greater demand for gay publications to carry personal ads than to cover news of interest to gay people. ********************************************************************** *Once you start feeling you have to apologize for someone else's * *behavior simply because they are classified in the same category * *as you, you begin to think about repressing their behavior. * *YOU ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR OTHER GAY PEOPLE'S BEHAVIOR. DON'T * *APOLOGIZE FOR IT. DON'T TAKE CREDIT FOR IT. * **********************************************************************