Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.3 alpha 4/15/85; site pucc-j Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!mhuxr!mhuxn!ihnp4!inuxc!pur-ee!pucc-j!aaz From: aaz@pucc-j (Marc Mengel) Newsgroups: net.jobs,net.singles Subject: Re: Headhunters, hearthunters. Message-ID: <760@pucc-j> Date: Sun, 26-Jan-86 20:41:34 EST Article-I.D.: pucc-j.760 Posted: Sun Jan 26 20:41:34 1986 Date-Received: Tue, 28-Jan-86 05:44:46 EST References: <5662@cca.UUCP> Organization: The Hacker's Liberation Front Lines: 7 Keywords: Blind Dates, Dating Services Xref: watmath net.jobs:1794 net.singles:10062 I think you hit on the important distinction here -- similar to the Tom Sawer/Whitewashing principle. If you go to the headhunter or dating service to help you find someone you are interested in, thats fine... but if someone else, completely unasked for, decides that you need help in the area of finding someone, this is taken as an insult.