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From: frye@cuuxb.UUCP (frye)
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: Here's one for you, Elaine.
Message-ID: <382@cuuxb.UUCP>
Date: Fri, 7-Feb-86 12:23:22 EST
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Posted: Fri Feb  7 12:23:22 1986
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Jim and Darlene went over to see Cathlene and Marty. J&D
had been going out together for a while. C&M are married
and D is C's sister. Okay, set-up finished. My SO and I
went over to pick up J*D to go see a flick. C&M were going
to take in a wedding. My date and I came just in time to
see Cathlene come downstairs in a bra and panties. She
ran around there 'til she found her purse and went back
upstairs. Believe it or not, I caught hell for that. It
totally blew me away. My SO told me how much I enjoyed 
watching Cathy walking around like that, what a bitch
Cathy was for doing it, and a few other choice comments.
I was just standing there, really. Cathy is pretty (I
knew that before that evening) and built nice. I didn't
mind if she wanted to run around nude because its her
house. That's the whole problem, she was at home. She
could do whatever she wanted as far as I was concerned.
Her being under dressed for my SO's tastes (but only 
because I was there) really had nothing to do with any-
thing, yet I caught hell. The only concern that did
cross my mind was this one. Dressed the way she was,
in winter, would cause her to catch a hell of a case
of goose bumps the next time someone opened a door to
the outside. But, that's her problem and not mine.
As a sexual thing, Marty can take care of that for
Cathlene. Its not my department. 

The only problem is, I still can't figure out why I
got in so much trouble after we got home that night.
My SO saved it all up and dumped it on me as if I
were at fault. I just told her that I failed to see
her point and that she should let me know when she
really comes up with one. Yes, I did look at her and
would have even if she'd been wearing a snowmobile 
suit. I did speak to her and tell her it was good to
see her again, but I told Marty the same thing. I
told them both that I hoped they'd enjoy the knot
tyin' ceremony and the reception afterwards. Then
we saw the movie, had dinner and I caught hell.

From all the flack I got, I just decided that I'll
look and enjoy as much as I want every chance I get.
(Note: I didn't say I'd deliberately try to make a
lady mizerable, I can enjoy without doing that.)
If I'm going to be in trouble, I might as well be
in trouble for a reason. So yes ladies, I will look
at you if I get a chance. I will look at you if you
are nude or wearing clothes. I will enjoy it. You
are enjoyable and attractive (If not to me, then
to some other guy. If not to some other guy, then to
me...) and neat to talk to and hug and more. Like I
said in a posting in net.women a long time ago, do
not begrudge me, I'm one of your fans.

I will make a posting in net.legal about something
that happened to my sister. I'd also like to post
it to net.women, but thatgroup hasn't been getting
here lately. Don't know what the trouble is, just
know there is some...


Just take it light and don't worry about Ol' Grizzly.
He's harmless(8-).

Wish all of you the best.
Tom Frye