Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/18/84; site ucla-cs.ARPA Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!cbosgd!ukma!psuvm.bitnet!psuvax1!burdvax!sdcrdcf!ucla-cs!cs111olg From: cs111olg@ucla-cs.UUCP Newsgroups: net.women,net.singles Subject: Who initiates an encounter - was Re: Beach harassment Message-ID: <8831@ucla-cs.ARPA> Date: Sun, 9-Feb-86 08:09:58 EST Article-I.D.: ucla-cs.8831 Posted: Sun Feb 9 08:09:58 1986 Date-Received: Wed, 12-Feb-86 05:55:17 EST References: <902@dataioDataio.UUCP> Reply-To: cs111olg@ucla-cs.UUCP (Oleg Kiselev (the student incarnation)) Organization: The Land Of Mental Midgets Lines: 20 Xref: watmath net.women:8856 net.singles:10194 In article <902@dataioDataio.UUCP> bright@dataio.UUCP (Walter Bright writes: > >Well, from the male's point of view, if you hang around waiting for >a woman to initiate a relationship with you, you are in for being very >lonely. The only way I have found that works is to be very aggressive >at meeting women, and being persistent. I am not aggressive by nature, Well, of the last 6 significant relationships all six were either partially (and very actively) or fully initiated by women. And it wasn't my sparkling personality (mine is rotten) or my charm (I have none) or my sex appeal (I have very little) or my great looks (I doubt even a few million dollars will make me a male "10")... THe women in question were all very intelligent and were the type of women I'd have liked to meet anyway... Life is not THAT bad! P.S. Eric McColm can confirm my description of myself, I bet his oppinion of me is even worse than mine of him! ;-) -- Oleg Kiselev