Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.3 4.3bsd-beta 6/6/85; site lll-crg.ARpA Path: utzoo!linus!decvax!decwrl!amdcad!lll-crg!figmo From: figmo@lll-crg.ARpA (Lynn Gold) Newsgroups: net.women,net.singles Subject: Re: career vs. relationships Message-ID: <1252@lll-crg.ARpA> Date: Thu, 13-Feb-86 09:42:30 EST Article-I.D.: lll-crg.1252 Posted: Thu Feb 13 09:42:30 1986 Date-Received: Fri, 14-Feb-86 07:15:18 EST References: <125@ttidcc.UUCP> <215@batcomputer.TN.CORNELL.EDU> <1951@hao.UUCP> Organization: Lawrence Livermore Labs, CRG, Livermore Ca Lines: 23 Xref: linus net.women:8559 net.singles:9235 In article <1951@hao.UUCP>, woods@hao.UUCP (Greg Woods) writes: > > BUT there are many > > NON-blind, NON-stupid people who KNOWINGLY AND PURPOSEFULLY > > *USE* these commonly held assumptions *against* bright, > > competitive young women because bright, competitive > > young wome threaten male dominance in general > > This is a crock. Yes, I'll call you paranoid, but it does not "serve" me >to do so. What this really is is sexism and stereotyping, exactly the >same thing I hear you complaining so bitterly against when practiced by men. >Listen to yourself. You are putting all men into a class based on their gender. >If that isn't sexism, I don't know what is. Greg, the point being made is that there ARE men out there who do that kind of sh*t. She didn't say that ALL men were like that; not all men are. Unfortunately, there are those who aren't like you. I once worked as a consultant for a small, all-male (except for me) consulting firm as a programmer. While we were on one site, the boss and his assistant were insisting it was MY job to make coffee even though I was the only one not drinking it! --Lynn ...lll-crg!figmo