Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!gamma!epsilon!zeta!sabre!petrus!bellcore!decvax!decwrl!amdcad!lll-crg!seismo!hao!woods From: woods@hao.UUCP (Greg Woods) Newsgroups: net.women,net.singles Subject: Re: career vs. relationships Message-ID: <1951@hao.UUCP> Date: Sun, 9-Feb-86 11:34:10 EST Article-I.D.: hao.1951 Posted: Sun Feb 9 11:34:10 1986 Date-Received: Wed, 12-Feb-86 20:50:45 EST References: <125@ttidcc.UUCP> <215@batcomputer.TN.CORNELL.EDU> Organization: High Altitude Obs./NCAR, Boulder CO Lines: 29 Xref: watmath net.women:8892 net.singles:10216 > BUT there are many > NON-blind, NON-stupid people who KNOWINGLY AND PURPOSEFULLY > *USE* these commonly held assumptions *against* bright, > competitive young women because bright, competitive > young wome threaten male dominance in general This is a crock. Yes, I'll call you paranoid, but it does not "serve" me to do so. What this really is is sexism and stereotyping, exactly the same thing I hear you complaining so bitterly against when practiced by men. Listen to yourself. You are putting all men into a class based on their gender. If that isn't sexism, I don't know what is. If you want to create a non-sexist world (a goal I am 100% for, because believe it or not society also has expectations about what a MAN should or shouldn't do, some of which I find as objectionable as you apparently do those about women) you could start by not practicing it yourself. I think you are giving a lot of ignorant jerks a lot more credit than they deserve. This whole notion that all men deliberately subjogate all women is ridiculous, and propogating it only serves to give the few who really *are* trying to dominate an "excuse" to do so. --Greg -- {ucbvax!hplabs | decvax!noao | mcvax!seismo | ihnp4!seismo} !hao!woods CSNET: woods@ncar.csnet ARPA: woods%ncar@CSNET-RELAY.ARPA "If the game is lost, we're all the same; No one left to place or take the blame"