Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/18/84 exptools; site hoqax.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!mhuxr!mhuxt!houxm!hoqam!hoqax!twb From: twb@hoqax.UUCP (BEATTIE) Newsgroups: net.kids Subject: Re: is it a question? Message-ID: <239@hoqax.UUCP> Date: Wed, 19-Feb-86 09:20:08 EST Article-I.D.: hoqax.239 Posted: Wed Feb 19 09:20:08 1986 Date-Received: Thu, 20-Feb-86 07:43:59 EST References: <1128@udenva.UUCP> <6397@utzoo.UUCP> <330@ihlpf.UUCP> Organization: AT&T Bell Laboratories, Holmdel Lines: 18 While I don't think an occasional spanking is particularly harmful, I also don't think it is necessary. I feel a child can understand your disaproval of their behavior thru your tone of voice (even if they are too young to understand all the words). Spanking is NOT education - it is punishment. > Currently she gets spanked mostly when my not spanking her would > cause greater damage than my spanking her. > Tally Ho, > Tom H. This contorted argument just shows that Tom H. must be able to teach his child acceptable behavior (in non life-threatening situations) WITHOUT spanking. --- Tom. ...!{ihnp4 | hou2g | allegra | ulysses}!hoqax!twb P.S. For what it's worth I was spanked (occasionally) as a child.