Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!bellcore!decvax!genrad!panda!talcott!harvard!seismo!umcp-cs!aplcen!osiris!jcp From: jcp@osiris.UUCP (Jody Patilla) Newsgroups: net.motss Subject: "breeders" - unintentionally hurtful ? Message-ID: <701@osiris.UUCP> Date: Tue, 4-Mar-86 09:51:52 EST Article-I.D.: osiris.701 Posted: Tue Mar 4 09:51:52 1986 Date-Received: Fri, 7-Mar-86 05:46:01 EST Distribution: net Organization: Johns Hopkins Hospital Lines: 15 Just a quick point about using the term breeder to refer to heterosexuals - there are a number of people who would love to have children, are even desperate to do so, and can't. I suspect that to call an infertile person a "breeder" to their face would inflict unnecessary emotional pain, which while I would doubt that anyone in this group would *want* to do that, might do so unintentionally. (Not unlike all those thoughtless relatives who demand to know if "something's in the oven" and other crude questions which are none of their business). -- jcpatilla ..{seismo,allegra}!umcp-cs!aplcen!osiris!jcp Look for beauty in all things; let the fountains of delight refresh your heart.