Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/5/84; site stolaf.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!cbosgd!ihnp4!stolaf!flackc From: flackc@stolaf.UUCP (Chap Flack) Newsgroups: net.nlang Subject: Grammar and Spelling on the Net and Elsewhere Message-ID: <5122@stolaf.UUCP> Date: Mon, 24-Feb-86 20:48:04 EST Article-I.D.: stolaf.5122 Posted: Mon Feb 24 20:48:04 1986 Date-Received: Fri, 28-Feb-86 22:21:08 EST References: <235@pttesac.UUCP> <33100034@ISM780.UUCP> <658@frog.UUCP> <11949@ucbvax.BERKELEY.EDU> Organization: Carleton College, Northfield, MN Lines: 23 > >>any validity their statements might otherwise have. I suppose one of the > ^^^^^ ?!? > >>one another. If a person can't take the time to learn their own language, > ^^^^^ > I am reminded of a parable which mentions stones and glass houses. I am reminded of the words in the netiquette guide concerning spelling flames. But (no flame anymore, this is a serious question) is there any consensus on the use of "their" as a genderless third-person singular? I have to admit that I also find it painful, but I often can't think of anything better (that doesn't involve making my sentence incredibly complex and stilted-sounding). I find "his/her" even more painful. I notice that this use of "their" is *recommended* by the `sexist' tool in the Writers' Workbench. Hmm. While I'm at it, is there anyone out there who has a decent genderless salutation for a formal business letter? I really can't bring myself to write "Dear Sir or Madam:" (bletch!). -- --------------------- Chap Flack ihnp4!stolaf!agnes!flackc Carleton College ihnp4!stolaf!flackc Northfield, MN 55057