Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!bellcore!decvax!decwrl!amdcad!lll-crg!caip!unirot!pooh From: pooh@unirot.UUCP (Pooh) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: The "no is forever" doctrine Message-ID: <305@unirot.UUCP> Date: Thu, 20-Feb-86 10:35:07 EST Article-I.D.: unirot.305 Posted: Thu Feb 20 10:35:07 1986 Date-Received: Fri, 21-Feb-86 07:47:34 EST References: <167@axiom.UUCP> <1271@lll-crg.ARpA> Reply-To: pooh@unirot.UUCP (Pooh) Organization: The Soup Kitchen, Piscataway NJ Lines: 22 Keywords: beyond the initial rejection A close friend and I were discussing what we do if a person we ask out says no the first time, or stands us up. We discovered that we both adopt the same practice: we do not try again, assuming that if the other person is really interested, he or she will ask the next time. What does everyone else think? If you are told "no" the first time, do you give up? Once you break up with someone, is it over for good? Is "no" forever unless proven otherwise? And how do you feel about someone you have said "no" to once who refuses to give up? Presented for your consideration, Pooh topaz!unipress!pooh topaz!unirot!pooh Birthdays are like men. . . We'd like to give 'em up, but they're so darned much fun!