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From: wfi@rti-sel.UUCP
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: Re: Saying no
Message-ID: <704@rti-sel.UUCP>
Date: Wed, 5-Mar-86 09:45:14 EST
Article-I.D.: rti-sel.704
Posted: Wed Mar  5 09:45:14 1986
Date-Received: Fri, 7-Mar-86 07:52:16 EST
References: <1369@osu-eddie.UUCP> <3286@sun.uucp> <686@rti-sel.UUCP> <10179@amdcad.UUCP>
Reply-To: wfi@rti-sel.UUCP (William Ingogly)
Organization: Research Triangle Institute, NC
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Summary: 

In article <10179@amdcad.UUCP> phil@amdcad.UUCP (Phil Ngai) writes:

>But that is the difference, that you are interested in a person sexually.
>I suspect many men are afraid the woman of their dreams is just playing
>hard to get. And don't you value something more if you have to put a
>lot of effort into getting it?

First of all, I don't have a 'woman of my dreams.' There are women I
am sexually attracted to, women that make me laugh, women I might be
able to live with, etc. As to playing hard to get, I don't WANT to get
to know someone who plays those kind of outdated and immature mind
games. Period. If on the other hand I think someone's just somewhat
shy about making new friends or has other reservations, that's a
different story ...

                              -- Cheers, Bill Ingogly