Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/18/84; site nrcvax.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!bellcore!decvax!ittatc!dcdwest!sdcsvax!sdcrdcf!psivax!nrcvax!terry From: terry@nrcvax.UUCP (Terry Grevstad) Newsgroups: net.singles,net.women Subject: Re: Why male dominance? Message-ID: <536@nrcvax.UUCP> Date: Fri, 7-Mar-86 17:18:30 EST Article-I.D.: nrcvax.536 Posted: Fri Mar 7 17:18:30 1986 Date-Received: Tue, 11-Mar-86 00:38:00 EST References: <1530@decwrl.DEC.COM> Reply-To: terry@nrcvax.UUCP (Terry Grevstad) Organization: Network Research Research Corp. Oxnard,CA Lines: 65 Xref: watmath net.singles:10831 net.women:9644 jackson@11367.DEC (SETH JACKSON 297-4751) says: >My point is that the traditional gender roles evolved out of >some need of society, and was mutually agreed upon by men and women >at some point in time, as this arrangement allowed for a smoothly >functioning society. I will agree with this statement. Those "traditional gender roles" are now in the process of changing, and both men and women are getting bent out of shape because of it. But, yes, the traditional roles _did_ provide for the needs of society, and not too long ago either. If you go back even 100-150 years, you would find a predominately agrarian society where families stayed together in a local area, on a farm. The man tilled the fields, herded the cattle/sheep/what-have-you, made sure house/barn/etc was in good repair and the like. The woman helped till the fields when necessary, often took sole responsibility for livestock (particularly chickens/sheep/goats), raised a garden, baked bread, hand-washed all laundry, made all the clothes, did all the housework sans modern appliances. The children helped out as age, size and propensity indicated. ALL INDIVIDUALS WERE MADE TO FEEL NEEDED AND WORTHWHILE! However, come the turn of the century/industrial revolution/whatever people started going to work in factories (men, women and children). Men went to work more because if they lived in the city there were no fields to till. They had more time to work. Women didn't because the laundry still had to be done by hand, the bread still was baked at home, and the budding home appliance industry was out of the average price range. Therefore, the woman still had a LOT of work to do at home. But, gradually, home appliances became relatively easy to acquire, and doing housework became relatively easy. Laundry--instead of a back-breaking, all-day job--became a matter of throwing the clothes in the washer, watching your favorite soap on TV, throwing the clothes in the dryer, watching your favorite soap on TV, and folding the clothes. No challenge, no effort, no feeling of satisfaction in a job well done because you really didn't do anything. Needless to say, women began to look around for more to do. Hence the beginning of the "changing traditional gender roles". And I don't blame anybody for it, but if I had to stay home all day long with only housework (2 hours max) facing me, I'd go stark raving mad. Consequently, I work. I enjoy my work. It gives me the satisfaction of a job well done. I think a lot of women are looking for that satisfaction, and don't feel they get it at home. DISCLAIMER: This is, of course, very simplistic and is only my assessment of the current state of "traditional gender roles". As I've stated before on this net, "I may be wrong. I've been wrong before, and I certainly expect to be wrong again at some point in time." Bye! -- \"\t\f1A\h'+1m'\f4\(mo\h'+1m'\f1the\h'+1m'\f4\(es\t\f1\c _______________________________________________________________________ Terry Grevstad Network Research Corporation ihnp4!nrcvax!terry {sdcsvax,hplabs}!sdcrdcf!psivax!nrcvax!terry ucbvax!calma!nrcvax!terry