Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/5/84; site reed.UUCP Path: utzoo!decvax!decwrl!pyramid!hplabs!tektronix!reed!purtell From: purtell@reed.UUCP (Lady Godiva) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: What to do together Message-ID: <2768@reed.UUCP> Date: Wed, 12-Mar-86 14:22:15 EST Article-I.D.: reed.2768 Posted: Wed Mar 12 14:22:15 1986 Date-Received: Fri, 14-Mar-86 00:21:36 EST References: <489@ssc-bee.UUCP> <412@utastro.UUCP> <4571@mhuxd.UUCP> <2634@reed.UUCP> <4620@mhuxd.UUCP> <2669@reed.UUCP> <659@oakhill.UUCP> Reply-To: purtell@reed.UUCP (Lady Godiva) Distribution: na Organization: Reed College, Portland, Oregon Lines: 27 In article <659@oakhill.UUCP> hunter@oakhill.UUCP (Hunter Scales) writes: First, I'd like to thank everyone who gave me suggestions as to things to do. Second, I was wondering how long it would take for someone to ask this: > > I dont mean this to sound flippant or insensitive but whenever >I find myself in a similiar situation I look for someone else with whom >I share more interests. An honest question: why are you dating this >person? The only answer I can give you is that love makes a person do strange things. In a letter I recently wrote to a good friend of mine in China I more or less pondered the same question. That is, this friend and I have a great deal in common (we both love the same type of music, literature, and we both love to travel and well as many other things) and I don't find him to be particularly unattractive. He's also very intelligent, witty, etc. And he's not gay or married. And yet... it's not the same as what I feel when I'm with my beau. I can't explain it, and don't want to even try. But I guess that being in love is the only answer that I can give you. Share and enjoy - elizabeth g. purtell (Lady Godiva)