Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!gamma!epsilon!zeta!sabre!petrus!bellcore!decvax!decwrl!glacier!hplabs!sdcrdcf!ism780c!ism780!jimb From: jimb@ism780 Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: Common interests/jobs in SOs Message-ID: <62800005@ism780> Date: Sun, 23-Mar-86 00:09:00 EST Article-I.D.: ism780.62800005 Posted: Sun Mar 23 00:09:00 1986 Date-Received: Tue, 25-Mar-86 04:51:49 EST References: <4820@mhuxd.UUCP> Lines: 26 Nf-ID: #R:mhuxd.UUCP:4820:ism780:62800005:000:936 Nf-From: ism780!jimb Mar 22 21:09:00 1986 > I am bemused with the discussion about whether or not it is a good > idea for an SO to have the same kind of job or interests. There > seems to be such an obsession with *rules* on the net. So many > people seem to want a set of rules for relationships, so that they > do not have to make any decisions themselves. "If he/she has the > same kind of job, don't get involved." "Never call back more than > three times." And so on. All meaningless, all designed to let you > avoid the real point, which is that if you want something good to > happen, you have to take risks. ... > So we re-discover the same thing over and over again: that everyone > is unique... ... > Andy Cohill Well put. I only disagree with the position, quote deleted, that the story matters only to the teller -- I'm not that pessimisitic. -- from the musings of Jim Brunet ihnp4/ima/ism780 hplabs/hao/ico/ism780 sdcsvax/sdcrdcf/ism780C/ism780