Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/5/84; site randvax.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!cbosgd!hplabs!sdcrdcf!randvax!jeanette From: jeanette@randvax.UUCP (Jeanette Haritan) Newsgroups: net.nlang Subject: Re: "Thanks in advance" considered rude Message-ID: <164@randvax.UUCP> Date: Wed, 26-Mar-86 13:20:31 EST Article-I.D.: randvax.164 Posted: Wed Mar 26 13:20:31 1986 Date-Received: Sat, 29-Mar-86 04:47:52 EST References: <537@utastro.UUCP> Reply-To: jeanette@rand-unix.UUCP (Jeanette Haritan) Organization: Rand Corp., Santa Monica Lines: 27 Keywords: gauche In article <537@utastro.UUCP> nather@utastro.UUCP (Ed Nather) writes: >Although Usenet has developed a number of characteristics I think are >helpful and appropriate to inter-computer communications, one which I find >offensive is the oft-seen "Thanks in advance" at the end of requests for >information or help. This strikes me as rude -- it implies "I don't >really care enough to send you a separate note of thanks if you help me." > Thanks in advance, as far as I'm concerned, simply means "Thank you for the effort in which you are about to make". It doesn't necessarily mean a separate acknowledgement of thanks will not be sent. It could be a more *public* "thank you", as any follow-ups are usually more appropriate by private mail. -- **** **** ****** ****** * * * * * * * * * jeannette * * * * * ** ** *** *** ***** *** *