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From: licsak@hsi.UUCP (Don Licsak)
Newsgroups: net.women,net.social
Subject: Re: No fault divorce
Message-ID: <378@hsi.UUCP>
Date: Mon, 14-Jul-86 08:23:41 EDT
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Posted: Mon Jul 14 08:23:41 1986
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> In article <826@steinmetz.UUCP> davidsen@kbsvax.UUCP (Davidsen) writes:
> >In article <159@wheaton> bagot@wheaton (Bill Bagot) writes:
> >>In article <5950@sri-spam.ARPA>, gds@sri-spam.UUCP writes:
> >>> If you are married or engaged now, are you happy?
> >>> Do you think you will be happy 10, 20, n years from now?
> >>> Were you happy 10, 20, n years ago (while married or engaged to the same
> >>> person)?
> >
> >I was going to write a flame to the person who replied to this, but
> >I'll pass, let him be happy. Why is it that marriage is one topic on
> >which the opinions of the losers and non-participants are accepted as
> 			   ^^^^^^
> >gospel? Let me pass on a few tips on what's NOT important.
> >
> 
> That is NOT nice!!! Someone who is not married is that way because either
> they (somewhere deep in there) don't want to be, are not ready (know how
> many really YOUNG people read net.news?), or they haven't figured out how
> to "go about it". Saying they are "losers" is really unfair!
> 
    Good point, Elaine. I have a lot of respect for those who choose 
    single life because they know they don't want marriage or aren't
    ready for it, and freely admit it.

> Unmarried people are entitled to discuss marriage and divorce just as
> married people are entitled to discuss singleness. All of us may discuss
> going to the Moon, but not too many of us will get there.
> 
    Another good point. I may rattle some readers with my "blunt" 
    postings, however, I'm a staunch defender of the open forum
    concept. To the one who referred to "losers", I say "if people
    aren't measuring up, you'd better check your own yardstick!"

> Lighten up.
> 
> E
> *****


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         Don Licsak                      ihnp4!hsi!licsak
         Health Systems International
         New Haven, CT  06511


  "I'm the person your mother warned you about"