Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/5/84; site reed.UUCP Path: utzoo!decvax!ucbvax!hplabs!tektronix!reed!ellen From: ellen@reed.UUCP (Ellen Eades) Newsgroups: net.social Subject: Re: Electronically Mediated Human Relationships Message-ID: <3962@reed.UUCP> Date: Thu, 7-Aug-86 21:56:20 EDT Article-I.D.: reed.3962 Posted: Thu Aug 7 21:56:20 1986 Date-Received: Sat, 9-Aug-86 11:35:42 EDT Reply-To: ellen@reed.UUCP (Ellen Eades) Distribution: na Organization: Reed College, Portland, Oregon Lines: 37 > chrisa@tekig5.UUCP (Chris Andersen) writes: >>A topic that intrigues me greatly is the emergence of person- >>to-person relationships mediated entirely by electronic (non- >>television) means. >I would not hesitate to say that the field >of electronic, person-to-person communication is probably >the single most important aspect of computers today. That's an interesting suggestion, and I'm glad Chris brought it up, because quite frankly although electronic communication is very important to me, I hadn't thought of it as important to computerdom. I've met several dozen (at least) fascinating individuals via the net. I have only met four of them face-to-face; I'd like to meet the rest very much. Now that I've graduated from Reed and don't have that particular social circle around me, I appreciate netfriends even more, and my mailbox is usually satisfyingly full. One major problem of EC, of course, is distance. I'd love to spend more time in close physical proximity to my netfriends, but living on opposite coasts -- or even adjoining states -- tends to make that difficult. Should I get interested in developing a closer relationship with a netfriend, this will make things even more bizarre... Every once in a while the net hears about folks who met via the net becoming items, or engaged, or even (heavens forfend!) married. I'd be interested in knowing how they managed the distance problem. Ellen Eades -- "Holy Ovaltine, Batman!" -- Burt Ward