Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!cbatt!ihnp4!qantel!lll-lcc!lll-crg!seismo!ut-sally!husc6!panda!genrad!mit-eddie!mit-trillian!henry From: henry@mit-trillian.MIT.EDU (Henry Mensch) Newsgroups: soc.motss Subject: Re: Forwarded anonymous posting Message-ID: <1166@mit-trillian.MIT.EDU> Date: Wed, 17-Sep-86 17:45:58 EDT Article-I.D.: mit-tril.1166 Posted: Wed Sep 17 17:45:58 1986 Date-Received: Sun, 28-Sep-86 00:11:13 EDT References: <397@spdcc.UUCP> Reply-To: henry@athena.mit.edu (Henry Mensch) Organization: The Temple of St. Todd the Incontinent Lines: 19 Keywords: epistle #2 In article <397@spdcc.UUCP> an anonymous author writes: >I asked him if people he worked with knew he was gay. He said >that he had shared that part of himself with a few friends at work. >I thought that sounded so nice. Share. To me, that was handing out >ammunition, specifically machine guns and hand grenades. I thought >"I could never do that." Funny ... I think of it as defusing a bad situation. If the people around me (in general) didn't know I was gay and someone "found out," that other person could use this piece of information to hurt me. By being "very" out, this information is no longer useful as a weapon. People can say "I'll tell your manager that you're a fag" and I'll say "Go right ahead." Of course, I *do* work at Project Athena, the GAMIT employment agency ... -- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Henry Mensch | Technical Writer | MIT/Project Athena henry@athena.mit.edu ..!mit-eddie!mit-athena!henry