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From: nazgul@apollo.uucp (Kee Hinckley)
Newsgroups: soc.singles
Subject: Re: A Date with Doug?
Message-ID: <303edb3c.46@apollo.uucp>
Date: Sun, 21-Sep-86 16:36:24 EDT
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Posted: Sun Sep 21 16:36:24 1986
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Reply-To: nazgul@apollo.UUCP (Kee Hinckley)
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Organization: Apollo Computer, Chelmsford, MA
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Keywords: female behaviior , flame on carol

In article <6012@lll-crg.ARpA> nolan@lll-crg.UUCP (Matt Nolan) writes:
> 	Carol, you missed my point completely, as I stated the behavior
> I observe ( which is at last fairly common and works for other males, and
> for some females is the norm ) is not the the behavior I would wish to mimic 
> in seeking a date, such is my problem that I would like advice.
...
> 	Sorry, b?i%t$c&h, but what I stated is that the female gender I am
           ^^^^^^^^^
For someone who doesn't want to be abusive, you aren't doing very well.

For what it's worth, I have NEVER met a woman who wanted to be abused in
the manner you described.  I have known some who WERE, but none who WANTED
to be.  However, so longs as you approach people with the attitude that 
that is all that is wanted, regardless of whether you *are* abusive, I
can assure you that you are going to continue to fail.  Start thinking of
women as people like yourself, not another species.

                                                  -kee
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I'm not sure which upsets me more; that people are so unwilling to accept
responsibility for their own actions, or that they are so eager to regulate
everyone else's.