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From: tjc@hrcca.UUCP (Thomas J. Chapin)
Newsgroups: soc.singles
Subject: Re: Nice guys finish last redivivus
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Date: Thu, 25-Sep-86 18:08:39 EDT
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Posted: Thu Sep 25 18:08:39 1986
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> >> I'm guilty of Doug's accusations...and believe me, I've spent numerous
> >> hours brainstorming with my friends as to why I'm always attracted to the
> >> jerks when there are perfectly nice gentlemen that would love to take me
> >> out.  
> >> --Micci
> 
> 						 It was amazing how many
> women were attracted to me when I acted like I didn't care!!  Unfortunately,
> it backfired several times, where women I really wasn't interested in
> were persuing me!  It was also interesting how many women lost interest
> when I began to show some.

Hmm, same experiences...both directions

> 
> I might point out as well, that women seem more willing to approach me
> for social relationships, hugs, friendship,... since I have been married,
> than when I was single.  It's not that all the "good ones" are taken, it's
> that they don't become "good ones" until they are taken.

Yup, had a number of desirable women actively pursuing me when I was
married, who are nowhere to be found now that I'm single again.  And
those who I want just as friends....yup...sigh...

And so should the wounds heal, and should I be ready for a serious
relationship, I'll have to do it by firmly deciding never to get into
another serious relationship again.  Yup, uh huh...

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		       Sitting quietly, doing nothing,
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