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From: colonel@sunybcs.UUCP (Col. G. L. Sicherman)
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Subject: Re: hanging on
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Date: Tue, 7-Oct-86 17:10:23 EDT
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> 	3) If a woman refuses to sleep with you, after a relationship has
> 	started, and there are feelings there, but she doesnt want you to
> 	leave, what do you do? I tried to be a good guy, understanding and
> 	such, and to hang on until she changed. All she did was change
> 	partners. A friend of mine seems to think that women are more
> 	attracted to men who are more sexually aggressive and demanding. 
> 	In this situation, that means, I guess, that I should have been
>	more forceful and less caring (ie- do it or I'm leaving).

No, it doesn't come to that.  It's more likely to hinge on whether there's
_anything_ physical going on, such as hugs or kisses.  If not, then you
probably never attracted her physically.

Even with hugs and kisses, the "forceful" approach is double-edged.
She may like it, or she may hit you with a poker.  Well, hugs and
kisses can be kind of disgusting anyway ...


	"We're here to make everybody jealous."  --Len Cool
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Col. G. L. Sicherman
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