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From: davec@mhuxl.UUCP (Dave Caswell)
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Subject: Re: Frustration (was Re: Life after graduation....)
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Date: Wed, 8-Oct-86 23:52:45 EDT
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> From: eme@mtgzz.UUCP (e.m.eades):
> >>From an article by Dave Caswell
> >>I find that the farther I am from being in a relationship, the more
> >>obsessed about sex I become.  Of course the obsession doesn't do me
> >>any good at all then.  
> >
> >Funny I'm just the opposite.  I'm least horny when I've not been involved
> >with anyone for several months and not particularly interested in getting
> >invovled with someone.    I'm most horny/frustrated when I've got someone
> >I want to be involved with physically and haven't yet gotten to that point
> >in the relationship.  Wonder if the difference is at all gender related?
> 
> 	I suspect not. I react the way you do, Beth.
> 						Kayembee
Odd, when I'm at that point in a relationship, if I think the relationship
is developing and not at a standstill, I become quite mellow about the
whole sexual aspect of things.  I figure that I'm getting most of my
real satisfaction from the affection and intimacy that can be growing
before a relationship has become phyisical.  The preoccupation I feel in
between relationships is probably just a physical result of a mental
need.  Hurm, does this seem to be just the opposite the stereotypical
situation here.

Dave Caswell
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It is only with the heart that one sees rightly, what is essential is
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