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From: rb@cci632.UUCP (Rex Ballard)
Newsgroups: soc.singles
Subject: Re: What's attractive?  Facets.
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Date: Thu, 9-Oct-86 16:38:24 EDT
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Posted: Thu Oct  9 16:38:24 1986
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Organization: CCI, Rochester Development, Rochester, NY
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Summary: Different things for different situations.

There are different situations in which different aspects of
a person are attractive.

In business:
    In superiors:
      Dress:
	Business like.
	Coat or jacket.
      Personality-
        Ability to listen
        Confidence in self and me.
        Assertive to superiors.
        Gives credit where credit is due.
        Organised.
    In subordinates:
      Dress:
	Business-like, but not overboard.
      Personality:
	Ability to voice concerns, keep me informed.
	Confidence in self.
	Ability to work with others.

In romance:
   Dress/Appearance.
      Formal.
   Personality:
      Ability to take control of a situation.
      Willing to approach me.
      Assertive.
      Open-minded.
      Sophisticated - likes to try lots of different things.
      Likes the unusual.
      Aggressive, but not pushy.

It seems like so many people cop out when it come to what "turns
them on sexually", especially women.  I'll stick my neck out,
anybody else? :-).

Sexually:
  Dress-
    high heels.
    short skirts.
    stockings.
    silk or satin.
    leather.
    lingerie.
  Personality-
    dominant, but trustable.
    discusses sexual preferences openly.
    initiates.
    playful.
    enjoys the unusual (TV, B&D, ???).
    see under romance.
    good "role playing" ability.
  General Appearance-
    good posture.
    smile.

And yes, this applies to both men and women.  I have met
a few interesting TV's, one in a "bunny costume" at a holloween
party.