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From: cly@cbdkc1.UUCP (Carl Yaffey x3399 CB 3E365 DEBR)
Newsgroups: soc.singles
Subject: re: nice guys finish last
Message-ID: <1580@cbdkc1.UUCP>
Date: Fri, 19-Sep-86 13:45:49 EDT
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Posted: Fri Sep 19 13:45:49 1986
Date-Received: Tue, 23-Sep-86 01:37:51 EDT
Reply-To: cly@cbdkc1.UUCP (Carl Yaffey x3399 CB 3E365 DEBR)
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> >			 why do females act this way?  eg Be nice => they
> >lose interest: ignore 'em, abuse 'em and they crave you.
> 
<"Treat us like shit and we'll love you for life" 
> --Micci

AND,

>But where does that leave us?  Does it mean that the only way a nice guy
>can get someone he desires is to lie to her and pretend he cares less
>than he does...to act like the jerks, and then hope not to get caught up
>in the role and truly become one?

No. Find a person that is NOT hung up this way. They exist. They really do!
I didn't believe that at one time myself. Just BE YOURSELF. If the person
is emotionally healthy, you will not HAVE to act uninterested or like
a "jerk" to get their interest. Would you really WANT someone that
you'd have to play a game with to get? Keep looking!

Carl ("Fatha") Yaffey cbosgd!cbdkc1!cly
614-860-3399
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Carl Yaffey cbosgd!cbdkc1!cly
614-860-3399