Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!caip!topaz!rutgers!seismo!rochester!ritcv!cci632!rb From: rb@cci632.UUCP (Rex Ballard) Newsgroups: soc.singles Subject: Celebacy Re: Sex and the single ... Message-ID: <505@cci632.UUCP> Date: Sat, 11-Oct-86 15:26:48 EDT Article-I.D.: cci632.505 Posted: Sat Oct 11 15:26:48 1986 Date-Received: Sun, 12-Oct-86 06:01:24 EDT References: <5009@decwrl.DEC.COM> <1062@mmm.UUCP> Reply-To: rb@ccird2.UUCP (Rex Ballard) Organization: CCI, Rochester Development, Rochester, NY Lines: 41 Summary: Surprise!! In article <1062@mmm.UUCP> cipher@mmm.UUCP (Andre Guirard) writes: >In article <5009@decwrl.DEC.COM> early@tonto.dec.com writes: >>... Some religious clubs maintain [that]... everyone >>was meant to be married... unless EXCUSED by their >>[church]. Which coincidentally permits the church LEADERS >>to lead non married and otherwise celibate lives (remember celibate only >>means NOT married !). How convenient, hey ? > >I didn't "remember" this, so I looked it up in the American Heritage >Dictionary. The definition reads as follows: > > celibacy, n: 1. The condition of being unmarried, esp. by > reason of religious vows. 2. Abstinence from sexual > intercourse. > >Celibacy does not "only" mean being unmarried. Mr. Early implies that >the celibacy requirement is to allow priests the privilege of fooling >around which is denied to the laity. However, in every religion I know >that has a celibacy requirement for priests, definition (2) is used. >If Mr. Early would like to provide us with a list of religions that use >definition (1) he is free to do so, but I suggest he consult references >on the subject before once more inserting pedal appendage in oral cavity. The Jesuit order of the Catholic faith uses definition (1). The Fransican order explicitly uses definition (2) (chastity). The majority, but not all, of the orders include vows of chastity. There may also be one order of nuns that do not take chastity vows. The restrictions on adultry still apply to all, especially sex with married women. There are claims of records, and implicit indications, that while unmarried, St. Paul was not asexual. Marriage, defined by St. Paul, is the spiritual, emotional, and physical "becoming one". Just as a marriage could be anulled if it was not sexually consumated, a couple having sex was not married until the were emotionaly and spiritually (by cerimony) joined. This basicly gave fathers a way to prevent the marriage of a daughter through simple seduction. There are prostitutes in vatican city, most of their clients are members of orders NOT bound by vows of chastity, only celibacy.