Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!cuae2!ltuxa!cuuxb!mwm From: mwm@cuuxb.UUCP (Marc W. Mengel) Newsgroups: soc.singles Subject: Re: Treat 'em like dirt boys Message-ID: <853@cuuxb.UUCP> Date: Sun, 12-Oct-86 23:26:46 EDT Article-I.D.: cuuxb.853 Posted: Sun Oct 12 23:26:46 1986 Date-Received: Tue, 14-Oct-86 04:47:18 EDT References: <56@ritcv.UUCP> <119100005@inmet> Reply-To: mwm@cuuxb.UUCP (Marc W. Mengel) Organization: AT&T-IS, Software Support, Lisle IL Lines: 87 In article <119100005@inmet> mazur@inmet.UUCP writes: > >> O.k. I've had just about enough of this bulls**t, I wish some >> WOMEN (not men) would explain to me why they must be treated >> like dirt for them to like you back? Yes it does sound stupid > >I am soooo tired of this. Like rape and abortion, it keeps coming >back. If you believe the above, then all you have to do to get, >and keep, a woman is to: > > 1) go to any place single women hang out - how about a dance club? > 2) pick anybody that looks good - after all, they're going to hang > around as long as you treat them like dirt, so you might as well > like their looks. > 3) walk up, say "hi bitch", toss a drink in her face, and drag her > onto the dance floor (note that you have already decided that this > woman does not have a Chicago Bears linebacker for a SO). > 4) she will melt in your arms, and as long as you beat her up, verbally > abuse her, etc., she'll be yours. > >OK, sarcasm aside (for the moment), what's the story? The story is, you are missing the point. The abusive-SLIME-type men of the world do not walk up to a woman and throw a drink in their face. They walk in, generally in the height of fashion, introduce themselves to a woman they see already abusing herself (smoking, drinking alcohol, etc.) and then try their best "tried and true" lines. The act is the same everywhere; the script is modified to fit the local situation -- but the same stance, the same practiced-in-the-mirror smile, and the same condescending half-laugh is used. > One is that some women may (that's not ALL women, not even MANY >women) have low enough self-esteem that they will either stay in a >relationship that turns bad or will go into a relationship that looks bad >from the start. Once again you miss the point. The problem is not that women STAY in these relationships, usually they don't. The problem is that once this relationship is over, they go back to square one, and fall for the SAME aformentioned SLIME-act, over and over again, while those of us who realise that the SLIME act is just that -- an act used by SLIME -- and therefore don't use it, get turned down time and time again in favor of guys who use the SLIME-act. So we ask, time and time again, why do women fall for it? After the nth time of meeting a guy who acts like this, and going out with him for a few months, only to find he has been a double-timing ass all along, who refers to his girlfriend as a c***-bucket behind her back, you would think these women would learn to see through the act; but apparently not. They think these guys are "confident" and have a lot of self-esteem. This is not neccesarily the case -- it is more often that they don't really consider the woman they are meeting important enough to be concerned or nervous over. After all there are plenty of other fish in the sea that they can SLIME, and if they don't fall for the act now, they probably won't later. Anytime you see a guy in real life, who is dressed right out of _GQ_, walks up to you with no qualms whatsoever, has half a million ways to flatter you, all of which flow off of his tongue with that perfect delivery which comes from lots of practice... remember that these things are a 99.95% indication of SLIME. >Not to mention the fact that women are now being told that the chances of >their getting married rapidly approach nil as they age, and it gets >increasingly hard to give up a bad relationship. If you have little >self-esteem, no relationship may seem a lot (see TWO words!!) more >painful than a bad one. Yes, this is how SLIME eventually end up in a long term relationship, and go on to have an affair with the secretary, etc. I hope I have clarified the "women going out with guys who treat them like shit" situation. We are not discussing things like women who stay with wife beaters, etc. This is a different issue altogether in my book. Women falling for Bullsh*t artists who are SLIME is the problem. What we all want to know is, how do we combat these SLIME-who-get-all-the-women, without becoming one ourselves? Any answers out there? I know I don't have any ( sigh :-( ) -- Marc Mengel ...!ihnp4!cuuxb!mwm