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From: kaufman@uiucdcs.CS.UIUC.EDU
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Subject: Re: experience in a sexual partner
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Date: Wed, 17-Sep-86 12:36:00 EDT
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Posted: Wed Sep 17 12:36:00 1986
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/* Written 12:22 pm  Sep 16, 1986 by mazlack@ernie.Berkeley.EDU */

> So, IF you are looking at sex as recreation, why would you want to
> engage in it with the inexperienced?  Why, unless you are getting some
> ego gratification out of "being the first," would you want to put
> up with trauma and clumsiness?

Assume sex for recreation.  You see someone you'd like to do it with.
You're turned on, and that person seems to be also.  Do you:

a) Go for it?     or
b) Ask "How {experienced, good} are you?"

> Myself, I am fairly experienced and have known a fair amount of bright,
> vital, and sex loving women all over the world.  Seeing as such women
> are certainly available,  doesn't it make more
> sense to choose those who are good at what they do over those who do
> not.  When you eat a meal, do you prefer to have it prepared by a
> beginner or a highly skilled and talented person.

Well, if you're at a brothel, fine.  I don't like your analogy here.
Someone invites you over for dinner.  Do you ask them how good a cook
they are?

I think it's the same way with sex:  in most situations, you will be
selecting without this concern.

Besides, other factors are perhaps more essential to having a good roll
in the hay than partner's experience.  Try partner's natural talent and
the compatibility between the two of you.

Ken Kaufman (uiucdcs!kaufman | kaufman@a.cs.uiuc.edu)
"Who are you anyway?"
"Nobody."