Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Path: utzoo!linus!philabs!cmcl2!seismo!lll-crg!lll-lcc!qantel!hplabs!hao!nbires!isis!ttorgers From: ttorgers@isis.UUCP (Troy Torgerson) Newsgroups: soc.women Subject: Re: post-coital sexual gratification. Message-ID: <1014@isis.UUCP> Date: Tue, 16-Sep-86 13:09:24 EDT Article-I.D.: isis.1014 Posted: Tue Sep 16 13:09:24 1986 Date-Received: Mon, 22-Sep-86 23:41:40 EDT References: <1052@unirot.UUCP> <2fda048b.46@apollo.uucp> Reply-To: ttorgers@isis.UUCP (Troy Torgerson) Organization: University of Denver Math and Computer Science Lines: 32 Keywords: from both sides now In article <900@sunybcs.UUCP> ugeileen@sunybcs.UUCP (Eileen McGowan) writes: >>in article <2103@mtgzz.UUCP> Beth Eades writes: >>>I have news for you Ray, alot of us women don't get off on that "yuck 'stuff'" >>>but there's alot more pressure for women to be willing to "go down on" men. >> > Yeah, there's alot more pressure for women to be willing to *do for > men* period. > > Eileen Do I sense a little hostility here? Maybe you should listen to all the women that have said that they had some bad experiences, and they found someone who didn't pressure them, and took the time to make things feel right. Having the right partner maks all the difference in the world! I prefer slow, passionate lovemaking (yes, there are times to go fast, but not the entire time!) and that doesn't happen unless both partners are comfortable with each other as well as what they are doing. . .I know this has been said before, but talking to each other (before, during, and after) is the best way to find out what makes your partner happy and unhappy, and you just might discover something about yourself in the process!! -- Troy Torgerson Email (UUCP only): {hplabs, seismo}!hao!{isis, udenva}!ttorgers or {boulder, cires, ucbvax!nbires, cisden}!{isis, udenva}!ttorgers Shoot low, they may be crawling. . .