Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Path: utzoo!linus!philabs!cmcl2!seismo!rutgers!caip!dayton!rosevax!carole From: carole@rosevax.UUCP (Carole Ashmore) Newsgroups: talk.religion.misc,talk.abortion Subject: Re: Best for Others? Message-ID: <655@rosevax.UUCP> Date: Wed, 8-Oct-86 11:41:40 EDT Article-I.D.: rosevax.655 Posted: Wed Oct 8 11:41:40 1986 Date-Received: Thu, 16-Oct-86 05:12:43 EDT References: <2710@burdvax.UUCP> <5833@ut-sally.UUCP> <311@isieng.UUCP> <2617@watdcsu.UUCP> Organization: Rosemount Inc., Eden Prairie, MN Lines: 49 Xref: linus talk.religion.misc:485 talk.abortion:122 Summary: Consequences of abortion. In article <2617@watdcsu.UUCP>, mberkley@watdcsu.UUCP (J.M.Berkley - Computing Services) writes: . . . If she decides to abort her baby, > then she chooses another set of consequences, far worse than carrying > the baby to term. I'm not talking about "Eternal" consequences, but > consequences right now: guilt and remorse, sterility, etc.,etc. > Lord only knows what your qualifications are for telling the world what consequences women have from abortions, particularly since you seem to think that all women are alike and have the same reactions. My qualifications include personal experience with both an intentionally aborted pregnancy and a planned child carried to term. Also, I spent two years as a volunteer for Planned Parenthood. During that time I talked to more than one hundred women who were considering abortions, most of whom later had the abortions and came back to tell us about the experience. On the basis of these experiences and on the basis of my extensive reading in the field I can say that: 1. Sterility, and indeed, any bad physical consequence, is more likely to result from carrying a pregnancy to term than from a legal first trimester abortion. (The situation gets statistically more complicated for second trimester abortions because many of them are done *because* of physical complications of the pregnancy --because the woman's life or health is in danger.) The horror stories we have all heard of the awful physical consequences of abortion (infection, sterility, haemorraging, etc.) are leftovers from the bad old days when abortions were illegal and usually done under poor conditions by badly trained practitioners. Today, while it is slightly more dangerous to have an abortion than it is to never become pregnant, it is no more dangerous than carrying the pregnancy to term. 2. Some women do suffer guilt, remorse, and other mental problems following an abortion; most women do not. The women who suffered guilt were nearly always women who felt that abortion was wrong, but felt forced into it by difficult social or economic circumstances. Such women could be greatly helped by programs designed to help pregnant women choose alternatives to abortion. On the other hand, the majority of women who did not feel abortion to be wrong reported feelings of liberation, strength, independence, and being in control of their lives. These women would not be dissuaded from having abortions no matter how easy or attractive the alternative. Carole Ashmore