Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Path: utzoo!mnetor!seismo!lll-crg!mordor!sri-spam!sri-unix!hplabs!hplabsc!taylor From: taylor@hplabsc.UUCP (Dave Taylor) Newsgroups: mod.comp-soc Subject: Re: Children & computers Message-ID: <885@hplabsc.UUCP> Date: Thu, 20-Nov-86 14:12:19 EST Article-I.D.: hplabsc.885 Posted: Thu Nov 20 14:12:19 1986 Date-Received: Fri, 21-Nov-86 02:50:11 EST Reply-To: hplabs!seismo!nbires!isis!aburt Organization: Hewlett-Packard Laboratories Lines: 55 Approved: taylor@hplabs Reference: <840@hplabsc.UUCP> This article is from seismo!isis!aburt (Andrew Burt) and was received on Thu Nov 20 07:48:14 1986 >> The Night of the Hackers >That these parents have provided entertaining, powerful toys for their >children does not relieve them of their responsibilities to guide the >children in the civil use of those toys. This sounds terrific, but a root of the problem is in parental apathy. Too many couples in the past have borne and "raised" children without either (a) knowing exactly how to do it or (b) simply caring how to do it. The typical human being is rather lazy. We tend only to do what we have to do; with parenting there is no set standard of what "must" be done (as far as what responsibilties and ethics to instill into the children). Plus the fact that children gain their basic attitudes during the first six (or so) years of life by observation means parents can't really have philosophical discussions with their kids (should they even want to; if they don't care they won't even bother). Behind most "messed up" kids I suspect you'll find parents who don't care or otherwise are poor parents. As far as hacking being seen as ok, I would surmise the kids justify it as mostly harmless. From the standpoint of physical well-being, hackers do no real harm to people or property (you could make a point that the mental distress can lead to physical distress, but that thought probably doesn't cross these kids' minds either often or persuasively). As toddlers most of us no doubt were exposed to our parents "little white lies" and other acts that are also "mostly harmless". We grow up believe such acts are "ok". Thus the extension to the harmlessness of hacking is fairly easy. A second factor to consider is adult computer literacy. In a country where just plain literacy isn't what it ought to be, expecting parents to watch what their children do with the computers is totally unrealistic. Even if they do watch, they still have to *understand*. Most adults wouldn't know where to begin when looking for something out-of-place on their kids' screens. >I believe the parents of these persons should be held financially responsible >for any and all losses or inconveniences suffered by the victims. Nice, but idealistic. If Joey Hacker accidentally crashes a Wall Street computer and somehow causes a $10,000,000 loss (let's not argue how, just suppose), it is not very reasonable to ask his father the janitor to cough up $1,000,000 a year for the next 10 years (plus interest)... Regarding the comment that parents always support their children, of course they will. If the kid is a major troublemaker, chances are it's because of his poor parents. Now, the parents don't want to admit this, so instead of agreeing the kid should take his medicine and maybe that will straighten him out, they side with him. Defending their children makes them feel like they're being good parents. -- Andrew Burt isis!aburt / aburt@isis.cs.du.edu