Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Path: utzoo!utgpu!water!watnot!watmath!clyde!cbatt!ucbvax!decvax!tektronix!cae780!hplabs!hplabsc!taylor From: taylor@hplabsc.UUCP Newsgroups: mod.comp-soc Subject: Re: Messaging and misunderstandings Message-ID: <1419@hplabsc.HP.COM> Date: Wed, 11-Mar-87 19:02:22 EST Article-I.D.: hplabsc.1419 Posted: Wed Mar 11 19:02:22 1987 Date-Received: Fri, 13-Mar-87 06:30:22 EST References: <1405@hplabsc.HP.COM> Sender: taylor@hplabsc.HP.COM Distribution: world Organization: Ralmar Business Systems, San Jose, California Lines: 52 Approved: taylor@hplabs This message raised some thoughts that I would like to pass along. Re misunderstood messages, and "not reading": I have also noticed a tendancy of many people to quickly skim written communication and "jump" to the wrong conclusion. There seems to be some correlation here with people not reading instruction, and, as a result, performing a task incorrectly (or even performing the wrong task altogether). Also, this seems to be more prevalent with people whose job requires that they continuously review large volumes of information. Could this be an additional side effect of their being close to the brink of "information overload"? Re "replies often *are* dismissive. No one likes new problems;": I agree with the thought that people tend to take the shortest path to the resolution of a matter which impacts their personal workload, and that electronic media tends to make this approach easier. Facts, of the simple and bare varieties, can be easily communicated by electronic means. Communicating "ideas" effectively, however, requires greater effort. I think that this is true regardless of the media of communication (verbal, "hard copy", or electronic). Either substantial thought must be put into the communication, how it will be interpreted, etc. or there must be a means of feedback from the recipient, as there is with verbal communication. Re lack of care in the preparation of the message, spelling and grammatical errors : The software being used for electronic communication also plays a part here, I think. The software may either not allow the communicator to use spelling checkers and/or other tools, or may make the use of such utilities inconvenient. "Speed of reply" does, however, appear to be the primary culprit. On the issue of responses, or lack thereof, to posted articles: I am "new" to Usenet, and personally feel that I am still at the "learning stage". As a result, there is a certain amount of trepidation in responding to posted articles. I suspect that many other people may also have similar emotions, and, as a result, tend not to respond to articles which have provoked thought or strong emotions. Watching others "burn" on the Net (with visions of being tied to their terminals instead of stakes as others apply their "flames") is strongly negative in its motivating powers. This, of course, raises the issue of "why flames": In some respects, electronic communications tend to be impersonal. As such, I think it is easier for people to exhibit a level of discourteousness which they would not dream of on a face-to-face basis. Add this fact to their own "failure to read", and the other matters discussed above, and we see a neatly closed loop. Ralph Barker