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From: reggie@pdn.nm.paradyne.com (George W. Leach)
Newsgroups: comp.edu
Subject: Re: Are Americans Intellectually Inferior?
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Date: 31 Jan 89 11:31:12 GMT
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In article <19671@agate.BERKELEY.EDU> matloff@iris.ucdavis.edu (Norm Matloff) writes:

>What I feel very strongly should be done is for parents to create a 
>learning environment for their kids, in a POSITIVE way, e.g. by setting 
>a good example.  If parents themselves enjoy reading for recreation, have 
>a good intellectual curiosity, etc., then the kids will follow quite 
>naturally.

     Yes!  My parents would accept nothing short of straight A's out of me
for all my years of schooling.  Anything less was considered a failure to
them.  It seemed to me that I could never satisfy them.  To this day I still
have some trace of these feelings, that they feel I sold them short or
something.  It was not until I returned to graduate school after working in
industry for a few years that I had a change of attitude towards grades and
learning.  Why?  Because there was no pressure from the parents *and* I had
adopted the proper attitude.  I was there because *I* wanted to learn, not
because it was my parents' wish that I attend college.  Attitude is everything!



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