Path: utzoo!utgpu!jarvis.csri.toronto.edu!mailrus!ames!xanth!mcnc!ecsvax!hp-sde.sde.hp.com From: marcia%hpindl8@hp-sde.sde.hp.com (Marcia Bednarcyk) Newsgroups: comp.society.women Subject: Personal Scandals Message-ID: <6376@ecsvax.UUCP> Date: 10 Feb 89 00:47:42 GMT Sender: skyler@ecsvax.UUCP Lines: 21 Approved: skyler@ecsvax.uncecs.edu (Moderator -- Trish Roberts) Comments-to: comp-women-request@cs.purdue.edu Submissions-to: comp-women@cs.purdue.edu The other day on the "Today" show, the guests were discussing the Tower nomination for Secretary of Defense. One person mentioned that the mere allegation of "womanizing" would have killed the nomination if Tower were a woman (would she have been "manizing"?). This brought to mind the remark made in the last discussion about why women don't post more which read something like "women tend to worry about their reputations more than men". I think what was made prefectly clear to me is that women *have* to, as long as the double standard is still around. Also along these lines, does anyone know of a woman that has "overcome" a personal scandal of that sort and still gotten a prestigious post or something similar? Somehow I doubt it, if something like crying can be used to help bring Patricia Schroeder's presidential campaign to a screeching halt. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Marcia Bednarcyk ADDRESS: (hplabs, sun, ucbvax, uunet)!hpda!marcia "Sweaty Snugglebunnies."