Path: utzoo!utgpu!jarvis.csri.toronto.edu!cs.utexas.edu!samsung!think!yale!bunker!hcap!hnews!101!460!Barbara.Akin From: Barbara.Akin@f460.n101.z1.fidonet.org (Barbara Akin) Newsgroups: misc.handicap Subject: Sermon Message-ID: <10339@bunker.UUCP> Date: 22 Feb 90 21:36:16 GMT Sender: wtm@bunker.UUCP Reply-To: Barbara.Akin@f460.n101.z1.fidonet.org Distribution: misc Organization: FidoNet node 1:101/460 - VI/BUG, Holbrook MA Lines: 30 Approved: wtm@bunker.UUCP Index Number: 6906 Hi all, thought I'd throw this out here, and see what kind of thoughts I get back from anyone who might be interested in replying to this post. My Pastor is giving a sermon on the man who was born blind, in the next three to four weeks or so. He asked me if he could interview me for about 5 minutes durring the sermon. I said yes, he could. Now, here is my concern--although I know my Pastor well, and he knows me as well, I still have Some concerns about being up there as "the blind woman" rather than being a woman who Happens to be blind. There is a world of difference between the two as I'm sure you all know. I plan to first write a letter to my Pastor explaining to him that it is lonely as hell to be thought of as "the blind woman" rather than as the person I am. I do Not want to be interviewed as a blind person. I want to be interviewed as a person who deals with the dissability of blindness, and that blindness is Not the main issue in my life. It is important to me that people see the woman first, and the disability second. I want to make this letter as honest and real as posible and I certainly do not want to be offensive in the way I write it. But, in the past, unfortuneately, when having been placed in an interviewing type of posision, the interviewer has kept asking me about blindness, and focusing solely on that. I want to get the message across that while I am blind, I am much more than "that blind woman." I know you all know what I mean here. Any thoughts from this echo would be of help. Thanks in advance. -- Uucp: ..!{decvax,oliveb}!bunker!hcap!hnews!101!460!Barbara.Akin Internet: Barbara.Akin@f460.n101.z1.fidonet.org